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You are here: Home / For Readers / Negative Thoughts Hamper Our Growth and Need to be Uprooted

Negative Thoughts Hamper Our Growth and Need to be Uprooted

May 2, 2013 by Margaret Duarte

Nature offers us lessons that, when turned into analogies, really sink in.

This spring, nature demonstrated its power to illustrate an idea in a way both tangible and easy to digest.

While weeding my garden, I noticed that the sweet alyssum and Marguerite daisies that self-sow in my flower beds each year were putting on quite a show.

They were also hampering the growth of the ice plant that was struggling to bloom.

So I uprooted enough alyssum and Marguerite to fill my wheelbarrow to overflowing, which gave the ice plant an opportunity to mature and grow.

Exposed to the sun and freed of confinement, the ice plant thrived, and was soon putting on its own spectacular show.

Now, the writer in me is always open to an extended metaphor, so I couldn’t help but notice a relationship between eliminating wild and overgrown plants in the garden and eliminating negative or outmoded thoughts in the mind.

Like weeds, negative thoughts – be they thoughts of failure, doubt and fear, memories of past hurts, envy or greed – hamper our growth and need to be uprooted.

The mind needs space for thoughts that empower, uplift, and inspire, in order for us to grow, spread, and blossom. In other words, put on our own spectacular show.

Ralph Waldo Emerson believed that nature is a great teacher, as expressed in his words below:

“The beauty of nature re-forms itself in the mind, and not for barren contemplation, but for new creation.”  Nature, Chapter II, BEAUTY

“Every appearance in nature corresponds to some state of the mind, and that state of the mind can only be described by presenting that natural appearance as its picture.”

“We know more from nature than we can at will communicate.”

“We are thus assisted by natural objects in the expression of particular meanings.” Nature, Chapter IV, LANGUAGE

Emerson said that Shakespeare didn’t have better life experiences than we do. He just knew how to weed out the fluff and make room for his thoughts to spread and grow into magnificent stories that survived the passage of time.

Therefore the question becomes: What potential joys and dreams are lost amidst the wild alyssum and daisies in our minds?

As always, thanks for stopping by,

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Filed Under: For Readers, Spirituality Tagged With: Allegory, Margaret Duarte, Nature, negative thoughts, Ralph Waldo Emerson, weeds that hamper growth

About Margaret Duarte

Former middle school teacher, Margaret Duarte, lives on a California dairy farm with a herd of “happy cows,” a constant reminder that the greenest pastures lie closest to home. Margaret earned her creative writing certificate through UC Davis Extension and has since published four novels in her “Enter the Between” visionary fiction series: Between Will and Surrender, Between Darkness and Dawn, Between Yesterday and Tomorrow, and Between Now and Forever. Her poem and story credits include SPC Tule Review; The California Writers Club Literary Review; finalist in the 2017 SLO Nightwriters Golden Quill Writing Contest; First Place winner for fiction in 2016, Second Place winner for fiction in 2018, Honorable Mention for fiction in 2019, and Gold winner for fiction in 2020 NORTHERN CALIFORNIA PUBLISHERS AND AUTHORS Book Awards Competition; 2019 California Author Project winner for adult fiction.

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  1. Elizabeth Scott says

    May 2, 2013 at 11:18 pm

    I love this analogy. I too recently had to uproot some overgrown wild flowers and weeds in my beds to help my plants grow. I find myself also having to plant the good thoughts in my mind and not let the weeds take root. Great and beautiful post.

  2. Margaret Duarte says

    May 3, 2013 at 7:53 am

    Thanks, Elizabeth.

  3. Rosi says

    May 6, 2013 at 8:23 pm

    This is just lovely, Margaret. Wonderful analogy. Thanks.

  4. bernadine says

    May 6, 2013 at 8:26 pm

    Margaret, I’ve been gardening in the front yard the past couple of days. It is looking pretty good, now I must work on weeding out my negative thoughts. thanks for the reminder.

  5. Margaret Duarte says

    May 7, 2013 at 10:11 am

    You’re welcome, Rosi. I love it when Nature speaks to me.

  6. Margaret Duarte says

    May 7, 2013 at 10:12 am

    Ha! Love it, Bernadine. It really does work. Just this morning, I was amazed about how turning my thoughts around changed my day. What a blessing!

  7. Jo Chandler says

    May 7, 2013 at 10:22 am

    Hi Margaret,
    In light of my own recent post expressing my frustration with the technology know-how needed to self-publish and market a novel, I think your message speaks volumes. I’ve been seriously considering depositing all of my negative programing and thinking into a large container to dispose of forever. It’s time for me to grow and breathe.

    I am grateful for your wonderful messages.

    Jo

  8. Margaret Duarte says

    May 7, 2013 at 10:54 am

    Sounds like a plan, Jo. Let’s grow and breathe together!

  9. Jodi @ Heal Now says

    May 28, 2013 at 4:40 pm

    I love this post! I get so much inspiration from nature. Actually you can find metaphor in everything, but then again everything is metaphor. It ALL represents something else. (light) I think I need to do some weeding! Thanks for the reminder. BTW: Your garden is gorgeous!

  10. Margaret Duarte says

    May 28, 2013 at 5:42 pm

    I agree, Jodi. In the right frame of mind, we can see metaphors everywhere, especially in nature. There are lessons everywhere. The world is our school. And thanks for the compliment on my garden.

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